Long time no see babyy~ Yep, it's quite
a long time I didn't writing here.
Found out myself being lazy!! hahahah.
But today I made up my mind to write again since I have nothing to do. LOL~
Everyone who know me KNOWS that I'm a
fangirl, K-Pop's fangirl exactly. hehehe. And what? I'm proud of it. I have my
reason why I can enter this K-pop world but I won't tell it now.
The reason why I suddenly want to write
about fangirl is because when I tidied my facebook account, I found an old note
there.
The title of the note is What a
psychologist says about "FANGIRLS".
I re-read that post and somehow I want
to explain it from my point of view. hehe
But I don't know which "psychologist"
said about that fangirls thingy or what, told you guys it's not 100% actual. But
that's not what I paid attention of. The thing that caught my attention is the
content, and here is it.
A psychologist says:
“Don’t underestimate those children who
chase after Korean celebrities, their hearts are purer than anyone else, they
love courageously, they will want to try their best to tackle difficult
obstacles, the language and cultural barriers. They symbolize peace, they don’t
discriminate based on race, they befriend people with the same interest from
different countries, they’re more passionate and warm than anyone else. They
don’t betray the ones they like easily, they are persistent and don’t give up
easily. They are stronger than anyone else on the inside, because when they are
loving these Korean stars, they experience the setbacks they’ve never
experienced in life. They are all sensitive children, easily touched to tears
for a long time because of one incident. Through investigation, most of them understand
gratitude. Their way of thinking is different from others, they don’t easily
get carried away by love, they don’t harbour thoughts of doing bad things, and
their criteria when looking for a partner is very high, other than looks,
personality is more important, so the rate of marriage isn’t high, but neither
is the rate of divorce. Their memory is
very good, they can easily remember the korean lyrics they don’t understand, and
their coordination skills are also very strong. Most of them are cheerful
children, not the kind who keep to themselves. Their will of determination is
also very strong, they are able to persevere all the way just to buy something
related to the celebrity they like. In
short, the way these children think is vastly different from others, and their
thoughts are not easy to understand. Generally, only those who have similar
interests are able to enter their world.” (SOURCE : http://sixbyul.tumblr.com/page/10)
Ok, since I'm a fangirl as well I can
tell that some of the criteria are describing me n my friends though. Not the
purer heart part anyway. hahaha.
*NOTES: I DON'T SAY THIS POST WILL BE A
SHORT POST!
Lemme explain it one by one then.
Start from "they love courageously
and try their best to tackle difficult obstacles, the language and cultural
barriers",
what is that mean? From my experience
the love courageously means when you love someone you don't afraid to show it
and even prove it, you sacrifice yourself for the one you love. In fangirl's
case it is when you queued for many hours to buy a concert ticket or when you
want to enter the concert's venue. Tell you guys watching concert is not as
easy as you thought. You may need to sacrifice a lot for that, not only money and
body but also mentally. You need to reassure your parents that you will be fine
as well. And then about take difficult obstacles the language and cultural
barriers it not as difficult as it said so. When you love someone you will get
to know them by time. You learn about them little by little, you willingly try
to find out about what your partner like. Same with this case too, when you do
a thing willingly then you will find anything you do is fun and not difficult
at all.
"They don't discriminate based on
race",
from my experience I got some new
friends from other country. We talked like we know each other from a very long
time ago, like I already met them in my real life but you know what? I never
met them and I just knew them. I don't care where they come from but as long as
they love the same group as mine then we are friend. I don't care if they are
brown, white, or black.
"They don’t betray the ones they
like easily, they are persistent and don’t give up easily",
yes it is! We don't betray our idol and
our fandoms easily. No matter what's happen we still try to support our idols. Like
me, I'm a EXO-L (EXO's fandom).
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we don't give up easily, we try our best to get
what we want such as album, merchandise, or concert's ticket. Some fangirls
even do side jobs to get money.
"They are all sensitive
children",
I once experienced a time when I was
very sensitive about my idol. You bash my idol and see what will happen to you.
LOL~ In here we called it as "labil fangirl". hahaha. But as time
goes by you will become more mature, it's like a human development anyway, you
grew up step by step not all at once. Fangirls are sensitive because they would
cry when see their idol cry, they would be very happy when they see their idol
happy. Something like that is usual in fangirls world.
"Their criteria when looking for a
partner is very high, other than looks, personality is more important",
I think not only a fangirl who has a
criteria like this right? This is not absolutely true and not absolutely wrong
too. But for me it's true that since I enter K-Pop's world my criteria when
looking for partner is very high. Sigh~
"The rate of marriage isn’t
high",
from what I see, this is a fact too.
There are a lot of noona fans (called it auntie fans) who hasn't been married and
still chasing after their idol. Even though their way of thinking is very
different from younger fangirl like me. I still want to meet a real partner and
get married anyway!! hahahaha
"Their memory is very good, they
can easily remember the korean lyrics they don’t understand, and their
coordination skills are also very strong."
Somehow it's right, but for lyrics of
course we could remember it because we listen to the song all over the time, isn't
it weird if we still can't remember it after listen to it again and again? LOL~
But I can say that fangirl's memory to remember the name of all groups members
is no joke. hahaha. And what is that
coordination skill? Somewhat like motor-coordination skill such as dancing or
what? wkwkwk.
"Most of them are cheerful
children, not the kind who keep to themselves",
this one is not very true. Actually it's
based on the personality not because of fangirl thingy. But if what you mean
like screaming together in a class or something like that can count as "a
cheerful children and not the kind who keep to themselves" then it's
right. hahaha
"Their will of determination is
also very strong, they are able to persevere all the way just to buy something related
to the celebrity they like."
It's 100% true. I even saving since my
1st year in senior high school just to watch my idol's concert. Some of my
friends saving to buy albums, merchandise, etc. When we set up our mind then
our determination is very high.
"Generally, only those who have
similar interests are able to enter their world."
this words make us seems like an autism
person or asocial person. ckckk-_- it's not like that. What it means is if you
are kpopers or fangirls then we can get along together closer to each other, not
like we don't be friend with people who are not fangirls or what. We still
friendly for all people who are not kpopers, but if you are a kpoper then we
will have more tight bond or connection. Somewhat like you don't need to say
anything in your mind about the newest news about my idol and I can get what
you want to say like a mind-reader. ahahahaha
It's finish!! Too long!! I'm tired of
typing. I know this post is kinda unclear to explain anything to make people
who are not fangirls or kpopers understand what I mean. But if I need to
explain it until you all understand I think the post will be 3-4 pages long or
maybe I need to make a part for each week. LOL -_-
Ok, see you in my next post. I need to
take a rest now. brb lying on my bed. hahaha. xD
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